Earlier in February Triarchy Press held a seminar under the rubric of ‘Justice and Organizations’ at Tooks, the well-known human rights law chambers in London. In retrospect, I think it might have been better to call it ‘social justice in organizations’ or ‘social injustices’ as it considered social pathologies in relation to bullying and scapegoating in our organized lives. Bullying is found in our families and schools, in the organizations in which we spend much of our life and in the public realm – in this latter case, infecting our attitudes and policies to the most obvious alien other, the migrant worker and the asylum seeker. We wanted to raise awareness of social pathologies in order to search out ways to change our behaviour for the better, and felt that the best way to approach the topic would be through predominantly social scientific methods.
Is there a social pathology of bullying in our culture?
The mix of lawyers and asylum and migration experts as well as organizational leaders and artists considered the idea of a social pathology of bullying. Some of the statistics presented were shocking. For example, that 15% of employees leave their organizations because of bullying without choosing to go to a tribunal. It’s generally believed to be easier to find another job than fight your corner, leaving, of course, the problem in tact and behind. And this view is confirmed by those cases that do go to tribunal, for, here, 25% of witnesses (not even the victim or the bully) leave their employment because they find the process to be traumatic and destructive.
Yet, if bullying is such a serious, underlying problem in our organizations, why is it that the ‘Dignity at Work’ bill failed in parliament and that the laws protecting ‘whistleblowers’ is under constant threat of dilution from the government? You would think that we would want to get to grips with it. And in all fairness, eliminate it. Instead, many of the problems are pushed under the carpet. Why is that? The most obvious answer is that we are unaware of how we behave.
But what happens if we look beyond the boundaries of a specific organization to the broader cultural landscape? Bullying attitudes seem to be reinforced in our daily cultural experiences too. For don’t many cultural role models teach us how to bully better? For example, look at the recent proliferation of reality tv programmes. These depend on their audiences’ enjoyment of schadenfreude- as volunteers in Big Brother, or I am what I eat – are submitted to tirades of insulting and bullying behaviour by other participants or the presenter-experts. We watch transfixed, at the same time as we count our blessings. After all, it is someone else who is being bullied and, realistically, that is both a relief and a sort of pleasure. Or look at the behaviour of some footballers and fans. There is plenty of evidence of name-calling on the pitch and in the stands. Again, what about presenters like John Humphreys on BBC Radio 4, or Jeremy Paxman on BBC 2 TV? Their combative and provocative interrogations seem to have more to do with public humiliation and bullying than any objective desire to get at the truth: they punish those in power by brow-beating techniques of questioning.
From this perspective, we are being encouraged to ‘other’ our fellow beings. At the same time, however, we also told that this behaviour is unjust and wrong: we must learn how to play fair. This mixed message leads to confusion, fear or indifference – an effective way of disabling resistance and change. We learn to bully at the same time as we learn to fear being bullied. So, does the ‘acculturation’ of bullying reflect an intentional, cultural prejudice and a drive to gain power over people at the same time as it helps to overcome our own fear?
This last thought led me into another perspective on the problem of bullying: that of our biological make-up. For, could it be that we can’t help ourselves? That bullying is part of our selfish DNA? In The Three Ways of Getting Things Done, Gerard Fairtlough writes about the ‘pecking order’ that, he argues, underlies our addiction to hierarchies. Perhaps then, bullying is simply another manifestation of Darwin’s survival of the fittest? In which case, we will be unaware of it, and even if aware, incapable of change.
If bullying is natural and inherent, social exclusion may simply reflect our drive to get ‘on top’. It follows that negative and bullying attitudes towards those who choose to come to our shores (whether for sanctuary or for economic reasons), are little more than part of that struggle – made all the easier due to obvious identity differences, such as language, skin type, religion or culture.
On the evening itself, it was agreed that it is important to make connections between what may be a social pathology and issues of justice. But, whilst there was a general consensus that bullying attitudes are endemic in our society, it was unclear how best to move to change. Because there is a double difficulty: the devil of the detail is set against the enormous complexity of the issues. The professionals recognised the danger of falling into an immersion trap of the detail of their respective areas (law and human rights support, especially) making it difficult for them to see the broader causal picture. Alternatively, on a personal basis, many felt subsumed by the enormity of the complex connections between social behaviour and multiple issues of injustice.
Bullying and the rhetoric of justice:
If we experience bullying in almost every aspect of our lives, it may be because we have a pretty natural leaning towards bullying or to being bullied. In the most general terms, being portrayed as vulnerable and disenfranchised makes it easy to label individuals or groups either as victims or, alternatively, as opportunists or spongers.
Extremist language, interestingly enough, represents our understanding of the issue in terms of a rhetoric of justice. I have yet to come across a biological reading of justice. However, in social scientific terms, justice might be thought of as a social construct that binds a society together. Yet the language of bullying could be described as performative because speaking of people as victims or interlopers makes them so. When a child is labelled a ‘snitch’, he is inevitably alienated from the group. When a group of employees ‘gang up’ on another member of staff, they will justify their behaviour through accusations of difference which, when negatively applied, is a term that describes alienation. Thus being described as alien (in whatever way and in whichever organization) inevitably leads to social alienation and to injustice. In this sense, the adversarial language of justice plays into the violence of discourse that, ironically as such, plays into the language of bullying.
Arguably, the portrayal of the extremes of any spectrum plays through an apocalyptic scenario of fear and mistrust. Metaphors of extremes are further reinforced by our already disturbed pathologies of flawed identity and general anxiety. Seeing things clearly becomes extremely difficult. In the apocalyptic scenario, justice is a rhetorical weapon. On the one hand, it allows political opportunism (in projections of fear involving the immigrant intruder). On the other, it permits a narrative of victimisation: those who fear ‘immigrant overload’ are locked in a war against their opponents, who try to ensure equal rights for those ‘victims’ seeking refuge and economic stability. Both appeal to justice. Both are committee to a conflict of power. But in terms of overcoming the negative outcomes of bullying and social othering, the process is self-perpetuating and thus unhelpful.
Social scientific methods are useful in that they interpret social behaviours but are not always very successful at either analysing or solving problems.
The Darwinian model describes all our actions as driven by the aggressive move to get on top. The model of nature bred in tooth and claw ‘fixes’ our behaviours and can justify ones that seem unjust. Even the more subtle variants, such as the notion, described by Richard Dawkins, of the parasite/host relationship, tend only to reinforce the idea of the intruder parasite operating on its own, not its host’s terms – even if it may have a neutral or synergetic, and not aggressive, intention.
The language of justice plays into the apocalyptic narrative of extremes. It can often lead to a further reinforcement of the violent rhetoric of adversaries.
How, then, can we break free from this destructive discourse to analyse and ameliorate our social behavioural patterns? What we need is another way of seeing our social interactions and their resultant bullying actions. One that describes behaviour in less violent and more nuanced terms. In my next blog, I will look at Varela’s concept of living systems and his views of immunology to see whether this model offers an alternative to the apocalyptic narrative of the either/or of adversarial discourse.